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How a Resilient Mindset Helps Seniors Navigate the Move to a Higher Level of Care

Written by Parkview on Hollybrook | Nov 26, 2025 5:00:00 AM

Developing a resilient mindset can help you tackle the challenges of aging, including moving to assisted living. You can gain resilience by socializing, exercising, and prioritizing self-care.

According to Psychology Today, nearly all (95%) of our thoughts are repetitive. About 80% of our thoughts are negative, which can trigger stress. Stress can affect your health and quality of life during your retirement in Longview, TX.

Before that happens, learn how to gain a resilient mindset. Resilience can help you navigate stressful situations, benefiting your health and quality of life.

What is a resilient mindset, and why is mental wellness in aging important? Read on to find out. 

What Is a Resilient Mindset?

Resiliency is the ability to remain strong in times of stress.As you become more resilient, you'll have an easier time navigating life's challenges, including:

  • Natural disasters
  • Divorce
  • Retirement or losing a job
  • Moving to assisted living
  • The loss of a loved one
  • Medical emergencies
  • Chronic health conditions or disabilities
  • Financial difficulties

Resilient people still experience difficult emotions, including grief, anxiety, and stress. However, they don't back away from these difficult challenges. They face these moments head-on.

Why Is Mental Wellness in Aging Important?

Stress can affect your mental, physical, and emotional wellness.For example, stress may increase your risk of a mental health disorder like anxiety or depression. According to the National Council on Aging, about 15% of adults aged 50 and older have a mental health disorder.

This number could double by the year 2030. Unfortunately, two-thirds of seniors with mental health problems don't receive treatment. Many remain undiagnosed.

Without treatment, anxiety and depression can cause debilitating symptoms that may affect your ability to function or quality of life.These include:

  • Excessive fear or nervousness
  • Avoiding routine activities
  • Avoiding social situations
  • Sweating
  • Headaches
  • Chest pains
  • Trembling
  • Gastrointestinal problems
  • Poor sleep
  • Low energy
  • Lack of ability to focus
  • Rapid weight gain or loss

Seniors face a higher risk of developing a mental health disorder due to:

  • The stress of caregiving
  • Chronic illness or disability
  • The loss of a loved one
  • Loneliness and/or social isolation
  • Certain medication
  • Changes brought on by retirement (including moving to assisted living)

Prioritizing your mental and emotional wellness may benefit your physical health. Emotional strength aging adults know how to adapt to stressful situations. They rely on their resilience instead of allowing stress to take over.

Tips for Emotional Strength Aging Adults

Gaining resilience may benefit your overall health and quality of life. It may help you remain optimistic when facing life's changes. According to the National Institute on Aging, optimism is linked to longevity and well-being.

Staying positive as you navigate new situations may help:

  • You make new friends
  • Improve your physical health
  • Improve your emotional resilience
  • Reduce stress
  • Encourage healthier lifestyle decisions
  • Improve your memory, verbal fluency, and executive functioning
  • Improve cognitive function

Here are a few tips to help you develop a resilient mindset.

Build Connections

According to the CDC, about one in three American adults is lonely. Loneliness and social isolation may increase your risk of:

  • Early death
  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Heart disease
  • Stroke
  • Type 2 diabetes
  • Dementia

Building connections in assisted living can remind you that you're not alone, even during difficult moments. Consider joining a support group through your assisted living community. Otherwise, try planning a weekly lunch date with a friend.

Improve Your Health

Exercising can boost the production of feel-good brain chemicals called endorphins. Explore your senior living community's fitness program for:

  • Yoga
  • Tennis
  • Aerobics classes
  • Swimming
  • Weight lifting or resistance band training
  • Pilates
  • Pickleball
  • Tai chi

Exercising may help relieve stress. Try to nourish your body by eating nutritious meals. You can find healthy dishes through your community's dining program. 

Find Purpose

Try to renew your sense of purpose after moving to assisted living. For example, you can explore your community's events and activities calendar to discover new hobbies. Engaging in hobbies may help:

  • Manage stress and anxiety
  • Distract you from negative thinking
  • Prevent obesity, diabetes, and high blood pressure
  • Enhance sleep
  • Improve brain function and health
  • Increase happiness and life satisfaction

You can also find purpose by volunteering. Supporting your community may help boost your health, self-esteem, and mood. 

Mindset and Care Transitions

While adapting to your new surroundings after moving to assisted living, try to maintain a positive mindset. Seeing the positives in the situation may help you adapt sooner.You can also:

  • Personalize your living space
  • Establish a routine
  • Befriend the staff
  • Make new friends
  • Attend events and activities
  • Get to know your neighbors
  • Invite friends and family over

Try to remain patient with yourself during this transition period. Stay open-minded and embrace new experiences.

Frequently Asked Questions

How Does Stress Contribute to Aging?

Stress can cause inflammation, which is associated with health issues like:

  • Asthma
  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Arthritis
  • Parkinson's disease
  • Alzheimer's disease
  • Certain cancers
  • Diabetes
  • Cardiovascular disease
  • Chronic obstructive pulmonary disease

These conditions may affect your overall health and quality of life. Gaining resilience may help you better navigate stressful situations.

The next time you feel stressed, prioritize your self-care. Consider going for a walk or journaling. Remember, you can always talk to someone at your Longview senior living community.

What Causes Negative Thinking?

There's no one cause of negative thinking.Possible triggers include:

  • Negative rumination about the past
  • Anger towards others
  • Overanalyzing or indecisiveness
  • A fear of the future
  • Jumping to conclusions
  • Negative self-criticism
  • A lack of self-confidence

The next time you encounter negative thoughts, try to identify what triggered them. Break the cycle by focusing on the positive aspects of the situation. Consider what you can control and change.

Preparing for More Care

Maintaining a positive, resilient mindset can help you adapt to new situations, including moving to assisted living. Use these tips to build resiliency. Remember, you can also ask for help from members of your senior living community. 

Parkview on Hollybrook is a five-time Best of Longview winner. We also rank number one in customer satisfaction in the J.D. Power 2025 US Senior Living Satisfaction Study. Here, seniors can enjoy a vibrant lifestyle surrounded by comfort and peace of mind.

Enjoy our exclusive lifestyle programs, including Sensations Dining, Celebrations Activities & Events like happy hour, and Dimensions Health & Fitness Classes like yoga. Contact us now to schedule your tour.